Monday, January 31, 2011
We Love You Grandma
I could hardly sleep at all last night and kept checking to see if my parents had come home yet. I almost drove down to the hospital in the middle of the night and now I wish I would have. I didn't want to call and wake them in case they were all sleeping next to Grandma peacefully, but it turns out they hardly slept a wink either.
When I spoke to them at 7am, things were still the same. I waited for them to come home and hoped we'd all go back together after I fixed them breakfast while they showered.
Then, at 8am we got a call from Uncle L that Grandma passed away. Even though we knew it was coming at any moment, it still felt like a dagger through my heart. My heart that was already broken.
I got to kiss her goodbye and tell her how much I love her one last time and the rest of the day was spent with hugs, tears and love with all the family together.
We love you so much Grandma.
Peace...
Prayers for Grandma
Today I received the most sad news I've ever received. I found out that my Grandma B was unconcious in the hospital and would only survive another couple hours, up to a couple days at the most. She was sleeping and had no chance of waking.
I left work in tears that I was trying to hold back so as not to cause a scene, met D and he drove me down to the hospital (in my hometown an hour away). It was the longest drive imaginable. It felt as if the world had stopped and it was silent all around. Only the car was moving in and out of all the other traffic. I wanted to wake up from the nightmare.
We spent hours and hours next to Grandma lying peacefully in her hospital bed. I didn't want to leave her side. I continued to pray that she felt no pain and was having the sweetest dreams of her life. I prayed that she was comfortable and on her way to Heaven as soon as she was ready.
The doctor said this would be the way he would want to go if he had the choice and that provided slight relief in our aching hearts.
The whole family gathered around her bedside for the entire evening and I think we each sat in every chair at least 4 times- and there were 10 chairs. No one could sit still.
I waited for my Dad to arrive after flying home from a business trip and by this time it was getting close to 11pm. I filled up my Dad's cup of coffee a couple times and tried to comfort him too.
It was getting late and I wanted to take D home to get some rest, so we said our goodbyes and went back to my parents house, leaving my Mom, Dad and Aunt T there to watch over Grandma.
Peace...
Snorkeling Tips for Miss M
One of my coworkers is going on a cruise next week and stopping off at the island in Honduras where D and I lived a couple summers ago. I am so excited for her to get to see it and the beauty it holds, so I started looking up a couple pictures and tips to send her.
She told me they wanted to snorkel, so I told her the best spot for that and how to get to the best bar on the island for a refreshing drink afterward!
I hope you have a blast Miss M!
Peace :)
Gloves Off
I was at the sandwich shop today and everytime I go there, it seems the person in line ahead of me orders their sandwich with salami & pepperoni (or any other kind of meat for that matter). Since I don't eat meat, I have always been a little disturbed by this and one time I could even taste a little pepperoni flavor on my sandwich!
A man behind me once asked the worker to change their gloves before making his vegetarian sandwich and I have always wanted to ask the same, but didn't have the nerve.
So, after 6 months and 100 sandwiches later (that's a guess), I told the girl I'd like a vegetarian sandwich and she instantly took her gloves off before I even had to ask! So that's all it takes!
I gave her a bigger than usual tip today for doing that and I might go back tomorrow for the same thing!
Peace :)
Coffee Pot
This morning I was in the break room and noticed the coffee was finished brewing and quickly cooling off since the thermos lid was open, waiting for someone to close it and starting pouring their coffee!
So, I put the pot together and set it in it's place on the counter, then emptied out the used grounds from the machine.
I wasn't going to be drinking any of it today, but I didn't want the others to end up with luke-warm coffee!
Peace :)
Paper Towel
As I was walking through the parking lot to my car after work, I saw a crinkled up paper towel on the ground. I clearly saw it, but kept walking. Then I stopped, turned around and went back to pick it up.
I was a little concerned regarding how dirty it could have been, but it didn't look like it had been used for much so I dropped it on the backseat floor of my car and threw it away as soon as I got home.
I washed my hands with lots of soap & warm water before doing anything else!
Peace :)
Sunday, January 23, 2011
Re-usable Grocery Bag
I finally remembered my re-usable, environmentally friendly grocery bag today when I went to the grocery store. I always seem to leave it at home when I need it or I find it in my car full of other items and it's easier to take the disposable bags they give you at the store.
But I didn't have to feel guilty today with the cashier asking "Paper or plastic, Ma'am?" Instead, the lady said, "Thank you so much for bringing your own bag. It will really pay off in the end."
I haven't seen a clerk so passionate about this before, but it makes me want to put more of an effort to use my own bag every time I shop!
Peace :)
Brightly Colored Tops
I woke up this morning to see the sun gleaming through the windows and it felt like spring! We haven't had the sunshine like this in months it feels, although it hasn't really been that long. It was perfect timing, because my lovely mother drove up today to go shopping and to spend the day just the two of us.
We had a wonderful time and everywhere we went, people were very friendly. It felt extraordinarily pleasant and made the day that much better.
I gathered up some brightly colored tops that I haven't worn in a while and think my mom might like to have, along with some magazines- I know she loves magazines and I'm quickly taking after her (as I see a stack of 11 on my table)!
Thanks for one of the most wonderful days of my life, Mom.
Peace :)
Pasta Party for Miss V
Today was Miss V's last day working with us. She's now going to be a full time stay-at-home mom! Miss V was one of the first people I was trained by when I first started and I have never forgotten the way she was so nice to me.
I wanted to make sure we did something nice for her to celebrate her last day, so I did my best to organize a Pasta Party (pasta's her favorite) for lunch and ice cream for dessert. It turned out to be a great party with about 23 people!
I hope it delighted Miss V and I wish her the best in her new adventure.
Peace :)
Lunch for Miss J
Last Friday, my amazing co-worker, Miss J, helped me out with a couple things that I am so grateful for. I wanted to show my appreciation so I offered to buy her lunch. Now, it wasn't exactly a fancy lunch, but it was our favorite Mexican food place which we hadn't been to in a long time. Yum!
Thanks again Miss J :)
Peace :)
Big Question for Miss A
Our wedding plans are just about ready to start rolling and the first task in order is to ask my cousin Miss A if she will be my Maid of Honor. I guess she would actually be called "Matron of Honor", but that's just a minor detail.
So my heart was beating fast with nervousness when I called her tonight but after some small talk I asked the big question. She said yes and seemed very excited! We both started to cry a tiny bit, but then kept talking about it while giggling at the same time. What a special conversation that I will remember forever!
Peace :)
SMART- Week 4
Today was my last day off on this 4-day weekend and I'm happy to say that I almost feel excited to go back to work tomorrow. It's a nice feeling that doesn't come around too often- probably because having this many days off in a row is rare so there's never a chance to miss it!
I went to my 4th SMART reading today at the elementary school and things are getting more comfortable all around. The students, the other volunteers, the coordinator...it's like we are all a team working together. Maybe they've all felt this way already, but since I was new to it all, it's taken me a few weeks to adjust :)
Both of my readers were in really good moods and excited to pick out their books to read, and also to pick out a book to take home!
Peace :)
Shirt for Miss C
I met my friend, Miss C today for happy hour at one of her favorite restaurants I had yet to try. And now I see why it's one of her favorites! I hadn't seen Miss C in quite some time, so it was nice to get together and catch up.
After we were getting up to leave, I remembered I brought a cute shirt to give her. I bought it for myself a couple months ago and never wore it because it just wasn't my style. It would look really good on her, so I asked if she'd like to have it and she did!
Peace :)
Monday, January 17, 2011
Smoked Salmon
We asked for a late checkout today which gave us extra time to sleep in, exercise at the gym, sit in the sauna and swim before packing up and heading home. On the way home, we stopped at one of those roadside seafood counters where they sell the freshest fish in the state.
We were looking for something to take to D's parents as a little souvenir since we planned to stop by their house on our way home, but then we realized they took cash only and we had $8 to spend which might not be enough.
"Is $8 enough for a piece of smoked salmon?" I asked the lady.
"I'm sure we can find a piece for that price." She answered and started looking for one of the smaller pieces. (I was hoping it would be enough for a larger piece, but that's what I get for spending all of my cash at the casino and candy store!)
She gave us a piece that cost $9 after being weighed on the scale and said she'd put in $1 to cover the rest. So, I then started looking to see if I had any coins to add and found another 35 cents. I'm hoping she didn't have to use her own money, but that was very generous of her to offer and at least it was only 65 cents in the end.
D's parents wanted to share the salmon with us right away rather than save it, so we all got to try it and enjoy it together. What a great way to end a fabulous weekend.
Peace :)
Candy Shop
After lunch, it only seemed appropriate to pop into the candy shop for a little sweet treat so it turned out to be quite convenient that there was a shop right next to where we had lunch! ;)
The lady was so happy to help us that she gave us samples of her freshly made peanut brittle, and continued to give us more free samples than I've ever seen and could hardly eat! "Try this chocolate, try this candy, here have one of these too..." she went on and on. We were laughing and eating more candy than you can imagine, but we couldn't say no to something the lady made herself. It was like a dream come true!
After receiving so many free pieces, I felt guilty and wanted to buy more than I originally planned. I thought we'd each pick out 1 or 2 pieces of chocolate, but then I ended up buying $6.50 worth of an assortment and when she wouldn't charge us for a bag of her freshly-made peanut brittle, I put the $3.50 change in her tip jar.
I probably should have tipped more on such a slow day for business with all the rain, but she was very grateful. And quite entertaining too, I should add.
Time for a nap and then more live music in the lounge. This weekend keeps getting better and better...
Peace :)
Live Band
D and I are at the beach for the weekend! I have been looking forward to this for months and the time has come! It's raining cats & dogs outside to the point where even the covered walkway is flooding in spots. The rain is coming down sideways so I don't expect we'll be going for a stroll along the beach anytime soon, but that's ok.
Tonight we went to the lounge for dinner at the lodge where we are staying. There was a live band playing which caught our attention more than the dining room holding only a table of 2. Granted, it was 9pm so the dinner rush was past, but we were looking for something a little more upbeat and the live music in the lounge was just the place.
For every song we requested, D would put $5 in the tip jar next to the stage. The duo was playing for a crowd of approximately 15, so we wanted to help them out and express our appreciation- along with the applause after every song they played.
It was so much fun hearing some songs I'd forgotten how much I love to hear. We didn't want them to ever stop! The service was great, the food was delicious and it was a wonderful night.
We'll be back for more tomorrow!
Peace :)
Dinner Ready
I invited my friend Miss C to come over to my house tonight so we could visit, catch up on all the latest, and spend some time together since it has been about 3 months. I had enchiladas pre-made and ready to bake for dinner and the house cleaned up a bit too.
But then, it was soon 7pm (I was still working) and when I asked if she wanted to come over at 7:45, it was too late.
I still cooked the enchiladas and D & I ate the whole pan almost! Hopefully Miss C will be able to come over next week instead.
Peace :)
Purchase Transaction
I felt so tired after 10 hours of working, but I'm looking forward to a 4 day weekend coming up and have lots to get done before then. One task in particular is a home purchase loan that is expected to close in 2 weeks, but the buyers are hoping they can get the keys to the house sooner than that.
So, I decided to gather up some energy (a handful of Skittles) and I finished the file.
It felt really good to complete this project so fast and I think the buyers will be even more excited about how early they get the keys to their new house!
Peace :)
SMART- Week 3
My 3rd day volunteering for SMART and it just keeps getting better every time! J.S. came right over to my table with a big smile on his face and before he sat down said, "Should we go pick out a book?"
"Yes, we should! And we also have the Gingerbread Friends book to finish from last week if you want to?" I asked as we walked toward the bookshelf.
"Oh yeah! I want to finish that book first."
So he read as I listened and we both laughed at all the funny pictures. It was a great 30 minutes.
Then, J.C. came in and took J.S.'s spot at the table. It's amazing how much more shy one child can be compared to another. J.C. is very shy, but as the half hour went on, he started opening up a little. He told me about his parents living in different houses and how he has a pet rabbit at his mom's house.
"A pet rabbit!" I exclaimed with fascination. "What's it's name? What color is it?..." I began asking all sorts of questions.
He smiled and went back to reading until it was time to stop, and even then he snuck in another paragraph before getting up from the table. 30 minutes sure does go by quickly when you're having this much fun!
Peace :)
Children's Miracle Network
The grocery store is now collecting donations for the Children's Miracle Network so I accepted the cashier's invitation to add $1 to my total bill. She then asked what my name was so she could add it to the wall with all the other donors, but I was caught off guard and didn't really want my name on the wall, so I asked if she would put her name on it or the next person in line instead.
"Ok, I can do that." She said and started giggling as I thanked her and picked up my grocery bag.
Peace :)
Directions to Trolley
I was on a jog around some nearby neighborhoods when a lady walking down the sidewalk stopped me.
"Do you know how to get to the trolley going that way?" She asked as she pointed toward the river.
I looked around to gather my sense of direction because I wasn't prepared with an answer right away and didn't know where we were exactly.
"Oh, I see the trolley station right over there." I said and pointed one block over to the one way street heading the opposite direction.
"Thank you." The lady replied and walked toward it.
I said something else to end the conversation as we parted (can't remember what I said because it wasn't important) but she wasn't listening anyway. So, off I continued jogging up the street!
Peace :)
Saturday, January 8, 2011
Bride & Mother-of-the-Bride's Lunch
My friend Miss K is getting married next summer and I am her maid of honor! I couldn't be more delighted to share her special day with her and be by her side for every moment of it.
We've gotten together a couple times and talked about the wedding, but today we drove down to a bridal gallery with our other friend Miss A to try on bridesmaid dresses! Miss K's mom, aunt and 3 cousins also met us there- 2 of her cousins will also be in the wedding so all 4 of us girls tried on dresses for about an hour or so.
It was a really fun time and she picked the one she like the best in a soft pink color. So we are all ready to go!
Afterward we were all hungry, so Miss K, her mom, Miss A and I walked down the street to a delicious restaurant for lunch.
On the walk there, Miss A and I decided we would split the bill when it came so that's what we did! It was fun to treat the bride and mother-of-the-bride to lunch on this memorable day.
Peace :)
Card & Pizza
Since tomorrow is one of my coworker's birthday, we wanted to do something for her today. I brought a card in for everyone to sign, another girl brought cake & a balloon and 2 of us picked up pizza for lunch.
I'm not sure how it took so much time to organize 2 cheese pizzas and a pepperoni pizza, but it did. However, I can say that it was worth it and everyone enjoyed it!
Peace :)
Man at the ATM
I returned a movie tonight at the rental box inside the McDonald's located right across the street from our house. There was a rough looking man who probably didn't have a bath in a few days that came in soon after I did and he wasn't exactly sober. An old song came on and he started to dance around and sing along.
"You remember this song?" He asked me as I was waiting in line.
I usually don't ignore a person when they're talking to me, even if I don't know how to respond. So I answered, "Yes, this is a good song."
That was all I could come up with in hopes he didn't try to start dancing with me next.
Then I was at the rental box, just as I noticed the same man popped up at the ATM right next to me.
"How do I get my card to work?" He asked me as he was swiping it backwards. I tried to show him which direction to swipe it without actually taking the card from his hands. It took a minute but he got it to work and got his cash.
I found a movie at the same time and left the store carefully. I'm glad I could help him, but I'm also glad I didn't get asked to dance.
Peace :)
Christmas in April
My manager had a great idea today. She told me about a volunteer project called Christmas in April which she was involved in once with a different employer where a group of people go to an elderly person's home or someone in need of a little help around their home and you work all day to fix up the yard, paint walls, plant flowers, and clean it all up!
I thought this sounded like a great idea, so I sent an email to our Charity committee to see if it is something our department can organize this year.
I am hoping they'll let us and maybe this could become an annual tradition!
Peace :)
SMART Reading Week 2
I had my 2nd day of SMART volunteering today and it was even better than the first day! I grabbed my 2 folders, one for each student I am assigned to and sat in the little kid's chair at the little kid's table and waited.
The first group of readers came in (4 of them) and the 2nd grade boy named J.S. entered the room and shouted out, "Who has J.S.?"
I raised my hand up high and said, "I do!"
He had a giant smile on his face as he walked over and sat in the chair next to me. My heart felt like someone had just held a heater up next to it, it was so warmed.
We read for 30 minutes, and then J.S. left and it was J.C.'s turn. I raised my hand and waived the same way I did for J.S., but since I met J.C. a couple weeks ago he already knew to come over to my table.
J.S. is a shy, young 1st grader, but I have a feeling that by the time the year is over, he'll blossom into a confident and talkative reader.
I am so delighted that I had the opportunity to sign up for this. I look forward to next Tuesday already!
Peace :)
Boy Scouts
The boy scouts came to our condo today to pick up Christmas trees for anyone who had one to dispose of. I hurried home from work, changed my clothes, then carried the tree downstairs which D had wrapped up in a plastic bag for me last night.
Keep in mind that our tree was only 4 feet tall or so and weighed about 20 pounds. It wasn't very tough to carry downstairs, so I don't want you thinking I was carrying some giant 8 ft tall tree down 12 stories and across the street! It was just a cute little mini tree.
I read that the boy scouts were accepting donations, so I gave them $10 as they took the tree.
"Thank you ma'am". The man said. "This will go toward new tents for the boys next summer."
"Oh that's great." I replied as I thank them for taking the trees.
Now it's time to clean up the pine needles!
Peace :)
Happy Birthday Brother D!
Today is my brother D's 27th birthday! I feel as if he should be celebrating his 17th birthday instead, but somehow time has gone by so fast and I realize we are all older than we used to be. "Duh" you are probably saying right about now!
Anyway, I had a lot of fun shopping around this morning trying to find just the right gift for him. I wanted to buy him a shirt that he could wear to work, but then I thought that was kind of boring. So I started looking at the cuff links and ties, which led me to the scarves. There I found a gorgeous grey, plaid wool scarf and instantly picked it up. It looked very handsome, felt extra soft (sometimes wool can be scratchy) and I think he'll like it.
They wrapped it right there in the store and next I went to another shop to pick out a card. I hope he likes the scarf has a few chances to wear it during this cold winter.
Happy Birthday Brother D!
Peace :)
Sunday, January 2, 2011
Happy New Year
Happy New Year Everyone! Can you believe it's 2011? 1/1/11!
We had a marvelous time at the party last night. Great food, lots of jokes & laughter, entertainment and I won some $$ and a bottle of wine in our bunco game! I'm still in shock over it...
I wanted to offer some money to the hostess for doing so much work in buying the food, preparing the dinner, cleaning up and hosting a wonderful party for all of us. It's always so awkward to try to give someone money, so how am I going to pull this one off? I thought to myself.
I could mail it in a thank you note? No, because that would be one more thing to add to my to-do list which I'm trying to shorten not increase. I'll just do it now I decided.
So as we were saying goodbye, I tried handing Miss J some cash which she wouldn't accept, just as I imagined. I really didn't want to take it back and I truly wanted to contribute toward everything they had done, so I ended up leaving it on their kitchen counter.
I hope that they will keep it or maybe use it toward their dinner tonight, because she mentioned they'd be going out. It was the least I could do. Plus, I won the money and wanted to share it!
Peace :)
Birthday, Party & Lunch
Today is my friend Miss C's birthday so I sent her a message to wish her a happy birthday. We are planning to go out for dinner next week sometime when things slow down a bit, so that will be nice to catch up and celebrate with her. Happy birthday Miss C!
It's New Years Eve and we are planning to go to a friend's house for a bunco/dinner party tonight which should be really fun. I have all the groceries ready to take and champagne in the back of the car, already chilled naturally since it's so cold outside :)
At lunch time, I asked a couple coworkers if they wanted lunch from the place I was going to pick up- my favorite, fast food Mexican restaurant. They both wanted to go there with me, so I offered to drive us all. It was one girl's first time, so I was excited that she was trying it and she ended up really liking it (no surprise, who doesn't love it?!)
Peace :)
Garage Parking
The temperature is getting down into the 20's at night this week which is the coldest it's been in a long time! I got home from work and could take the garage (we share 1 spot) but since there was a spot available on the street in front of our condo, I parked there and let D know that he can have the garage when he gets home.
I was really tempted to pull into the garage because that way I wouldn't have a layer of ice to defrost tomorrow morning, but even more, I didn't want D to have ice on his car.
As I was making Chex party mix and waiting for Doug's call to go downstairs and give him the garage pass, he walked in! He found a spot on the street and didn't want the garage after all. Oh well!
Peace :)
Dinner With My Brother C
This morning my brother C gave me a call to see if D and I could meet for dinner tonight. It was something we'd been planning to do over the holidays but hadn't picked an exact night, but this ended up to be perfect timing!
We met them at a nearby Korean restaurant and had a beautiful dinner. I say beautiful because it was just that. The food was laid out on the table looking like every color of the rainbow found its way into the dishes we were served. The conversation was intriguing and sweet. D got to meet my brother and I got to meet C's girlfriend. And, best of all, I got to see my brother who I haven't seen in over 3 years.
As we were finishing up our dinner, I sneaked off and paid the tab. I wanted to be sure I could treat the dinner and didn't want to have an argument when the bill came over who gets to pay. So this was simple!
When it was time to go, I said "We can leave now, we're all paid up."
"What do you mean?" They all asked, looking confused.
"I paid already." I answered.
"What?!! When did you do that? We didn't even notice. We thought you went to the restroom. You are so sneaky!" Were the comments that followed.
It was a great evening and I am looking forward to seeing them again when C comes back home in a couple months.
Peace :)
Chasing Waiter to Tip
After dinner with D and his buddies we were ready to go home, but stopped at a sports bar on the way home instead. D ordered a cup of coffee and I had water (quite a boring order, but we knew we'd only be there less than 10 minutes or so).
D didn't have any cash so I paid for his coffee and before we could tip the waiter, he was across the room already. So we chased him down on the other side of the restaurant and gave him a tip for the service. He thanked us sincerely and we headed home!
Peace :)
Confidential Letter Found
As I was walking through the parking garage on my way home tonight, I stumbled upon a folded up letter. I didn't want to be snoopy, but I also didn't want to leave something confidential lying on the ground either.
So I picked it up, read the addressee information and first sentence of the message and immediately decided I would turn it into the concierge in the lobby of the building. I felt like I was doing something wrong by picking it up, but knew it would be worse to leave it.
The concierge knew exactly who it was for and said she'd deliver it to them right away.
Peace :)